Showing posts with label TDCJ Approved Officiant. Show all posts
Showing posts with label TDCJ Approved Officiant. Show all posts

Saturday, September 22, 2018

TDCJ Garza East Ceremony by Texas Prison Weddings


Susan and Danon
September 18, 2018
TDCJ Garza E


Susan and I met in a Walmart parking lot on 59 at Airport Blvd for the ride to Beeville.  During the next couple of hours, we talked about Danon, the kids and Life in general.




We stopped at a rest area near Victoria to take a few 'wedding' pictures with bouquets.  This was a first for Texas Prison Weddings but should be a nice addition for our brides.  We hope to make the time leading up to their Memorable Moment as special as possible for our brides.

Our ceremony is not script so it usually includes a few laughs, hugs and kisses but unfortunately when it was over, it was over and Danon was escorted out as we waited in front for the pictures.










The 'wedding' pictures were amazing.  The way the blue flowers show up with the all white clothes and background is stunning.  We have had some beautiful brides in the past three years but the pictures do not usually turn out this awesome.  I am so sorry but as I told the bride, I am in awe because this definitely does not look like it was taken in a prison.



It's not the Venue that makes the Wedding
It's the Love that makes the Marriage









Friday, July 27, 2018

Texas Prison Wedding traditions at TDCJ Clemens


Devon & Austin
July 10, 2018
TDCJ Clemens



With weddings come tradition to bring luck and happiness.  Texas Prison Weddings are no different, each has their own story to tell.



PHOTOS REMOVED FOR PRIVACY



                                                Something Old
                                                Something New
                                                Something Borrowed
                                                Something Blue


      A 1993 penny to represent the year the groom was born
      A special gift from the groom made just for his bride
      A borrowed ring of 3 stones for past, present and future happiness
      A beautiful bride dressed in a perfect shade of blue


PHOTO REMOVED



The family was there to greet Devon with bubbles filling the room as she entered the door.  A small reception was waiting cake and even a special message on the mirror. 




PHOTO REMOVED



"I'm really proud and grateful for my family doing all this."


It's good to have the support of family and friends when you get married, even more so when your new spouse can't be there with you at the moment.  Many blessings and much luck to Devon and Austin on their journey.


Thursday, July 26, 2018

Texas Prison Wedding delayed at TDCJ Connally

Brianna and Kiedric
July 26, 2018
TDCJ Connally


The bride and I arrived at Connally 30 minutes early.  We were told to come back at 5 minutes til ceremony time.  We waited.

We went back only to be told that they had a power outage and were working with limited power from the generator.  They said we could wait or reschedule.  We waited.

About 30 minutes later, they signaled for us to come in.  Brianna lightheartedly said, "third times' a charm"

Between coming early and the delay due to power outage, Brianna and I waited patiently about an hour.

However when Keidric and Brianna saw each other, it was all forgotten.  Since no one objected, Keidric shared their Memorable Moment and are now man and wife.






Another Texas Prison Wedding at TDCJ Murray



Paul & Felicia
July 17, 2018
TDCJ Murray






From across the room, Paul noticed the most beautiful woman in the world.
Could it really be, LOVE at first sight?

It's usually the bride that's nervous or 'has butterflies' but not this time.   Paul said that he was glad he came up the night before because he was so nervous he wasn't able to sleep.










Bashful Bride at TDCJ Michael Wedding


Israel and Aurora 
July 24, 2018
TDCJ Michael Unit


Aurora and I met early at the corner store in Tennessee Colony.  We discussed the ceremony and what to expect before going to the unit.





During the ceremony, Aurora would back away from the window.   A chair was placed behind her which didn't help. Ms Smith placed Aurora's hand on the window to help steady her and 'keep her in place'.   Israel and Aurora shared their vows or at least he did.  She was soo nervous, her whole body trembled.   If ever there was a bashful bride, Aurora took first place.





#TexasPrisonWeddings has several #ApprovedOfficiants available to help make that special Moment Memorable for your #TexasPrisonWedding



Texas Prison Weddings is what 'I DO'

Wednesday, June 20, 2018

Texas Prison Weddings is what we did today at TDCJ Vance and TDCJ Estelle!


Tuesday, June 19, 2018     
A very wet day in Texas had twice the blessings


It's considered lucky 
to have rain on your wedding day
because it's harder to untie
a wet knot than a dry one
Terry & Leta @ Vance
June 19, 2018


Rain, rain, go away
Rain or shine, can't delay
Nothing to stop us today
TDCJ Officiants were on the way


Open that gate and don't be late
Chaplain Packard has set the date
Rush hour traffic and rainy skies,
Sweet words from the groom and the bride cries


Kids like playing in the rain
as well as running the sun
but for a bride dressed in white,
the rain is not always fun


With two happy couples at Estelle and Vance
this TDCJ Officiant had left nothing to chance
But no music played for the couple's first dance


6/19 @ 8 am
Jo Anne had the honor of performing a Memorable Moment at the Vance Unit in Richmond this morning as Leta and Terry tied the knot.  The groom hit his chest and he said he would 'speak the words from his heart'.  The bride was so nervous, she chose to recite personalized vows written just for them because they 'they were perfectly worded and told their story well'.


6/19 @ 11 am
Mollie shared a Memorable Moment at the Estelle Unit in Huntsville as Amanda and François declared their love for each other.  If Amanda looked down or away, Francois would say, "Let me see that beautiful smile".   When he spoke, she cried.  When she spoke, he teared up.  By the time it was over, Mollie was in tears as well and there didn't seem to be a dry eye in the place.




Breakfast for 2...   Delicious
Driving 8 hours...  Exhausting
Flowers & gifts...  Gorgeous
Happy couples...   Priceless



Tuesday, June 12, 2018

TDCJ Wedding Process

Thank you for contacting Memorable Moment for your Texas Prison Wedding behind TDCJ walls.


Your Loved One's first step is to submit and I60 to the Law Library to get a copy of their TDCJ ID card.  This is the longest process and can take 3-6 weeks.  We offer a Twogether in Texas* Premarital Course that will save you $60 on the cost of the marriage license that can be taken during this time.  (The course will also waive the 3-day wait to marry)  If you have a valid ID and/or birth certificate for them, you may be able to skip this step.  


Your first step is to hire an officiant to guide you through the process of saying I DO.  Memorable Moment has several approved officiants to help make that special Moment Memorable for you both.

Our first step is to send the Twogether in Texas* material and our Steps to Marry in TDC.


Your cost to marry will depend on the actual location of the ceremony, where your Loved One is located. If you take the Twogether in Texas* Premarital course and follow our plan, it will include everything; no surprises or last minute expense.


Check out our website at TexasPrisonWeddings.com. Once you know your cost to marry, go to the PAYMENTS tab. Click on PAY RETAINER then go back and complete the CONTRACT.


We have very lenient payment options for the balance; pay as often and as little or as much as possible as long as paid in full 2 weeks before ceremony date or when a date is given.



Just so you know...

My normal work week is Mon, Wed and Fri til 6:30. I will try to text but cannot have calls when working. We are up late most nights so if you need something, it's almost never too late.


We may doze but we never close.

Let us know if you have any questions or need additional information. You can reach us via phone or text at 281-399-9999 as well as email at TexasPrisonWeddings@gmail.com.

Texas Prison Weddings is what 'I DO'.








*

Although it can be taken, our Twogether in Texas program is Christian based and not currently designed for non-Christian or same sex marriage. We sincerely apologize for the inconvenience and hope to have another in place before the end of the year.


Saturday, June 9, 2018

Name Change after your Texas Prison Wedding

Congratulation on your Texas Prison Wedding! 

When you receive your marriage license back from the county, you can use it or a certified copy to get your name changed.  Some may use a copy of your license or your new TDL or ID, while others may take your word for it.  In any case, here are just a few changes you may want to consider:

  • Attorney and/or Doctors

  • Bank Accounts  (contact your bank) 

  • Insurance:  auto/home/life/etc  (contact your insurance agent or me)

  • Car Registration (Form 130-U)

  • Credit Cards  (contact each credit card company)

  • Health Insurance  (contact your agent or health care provider)

  • Immigration Documents  (if applicable)

  • Lease Agreement  (contact your landlord)

  • Magazine Subscriptions

  • Mortgagee  (contact your mortgage company)

  • Passport

  • Payroll and/or Retirement (contact your employer)

  • Post Office 

  • Property Deeds  (contact your county appraisal district)

  • Professional Licensing Boards/Associations

  • State Tax Authority

  • Social Security Records

  • Utilities (Cable/Cell/Gas/Electric/Internet/Water)

  • Voter Registration

  • Student Loans

  • Texas Driver License or ID

  • Veterans Administration  (if applicable)

  • Welfare or Public Assistance (if applicable)

  • Will


Additional few links that may answer questions:





Texas Prison Weddings is what 'I DO'





Friday, May 11, 2018

Reviews



Texas Prison Weddings is in it's 3rd year. We have helped make that special 'I DO' Moment Memorable for close to 200 couple and hope to continue for a long time to come. If Texas Prison Weddings helped make that special Moment Memorable for you and your One True Love, we want to hear from you.




Our Clients Speak

Brenda, Mother of Mrs Rubio
“Thank you so much for everything and for helping us make it happen."

Zoila
“My appreciation for Jo Anne, you did a wonderful job"





Texas Roads to Texas Prison Weddings in TDCJ

Texas Department of Criminal Justice consists of 106 units.  Texas Prison Wedding officiants have been to at least 54 of them and can travel to all.  Since March 2015, we have traveled over 100,000 miles along Texas roads performing prison and jail weddings.

Unit Name City County
Allred Iowa Park Wichita *
Beto Tennessee Colony Anderson *
Boyd Teague Freestone *
Bradshaw Henderson Rusk *
Bridgeport Bridgeport Wise
Briscoe Dilley Frio
Byrd Huntsville Walker
Clemens Brazoria Brazoria *
Clements Amarillo Potter *
Cleveland Cleveland Liberty
Coffield Palestine Anderson *
Cole Bonham Fannin *
Connally Kenedy Karnes *
Cotulla Cotulla La Salle
Crain Gatesville Coryell
Dalhart Dalhart Hartley
Daniel Snyder Scurry
Darrington Rosharon Brazoria *
Diboll Diboll Angelina *
Dominguez San Antonio Bexar *
Duncan Diboll Angelina
East Texas Henderson Rusk
Eastham Lovelady Houston *
Ellis Riverside Walker *
Estelle Riverside Walker *
Estes Venus Johnson *
Ferguson Midway Madison *
Formby Plainview Hale *
Fort Stockton Fort Stockton Pecos
Garza East Beeville Bee *
Garza West Beeville Bee *
Gist Beaumont Jefferson *
Glossbrenner San Diego Duvall
Goodman Jasper Jasper *
Goree Huntsville Walker
Gurney Palestine Anderson *
Halbert Burnet Burnet
Hamilton Bryan Brazos
Havins Brownwood Brown
Henley Dayton Liberty
Hightower Dayton Liberty *
Hilltop Gatesville Coryell
Hobby Marlin Falls *
Hodge Rusk Cherokee
Holliday Huntsville Walker *
Hospital Galveston Galveston Galveston
Hughes Gatesville Coryell *
Huntsville Huntsville Walker *
Hutchins Dallas Dallas *
Jester  Richmond Fort Bend
Johnston Winnsboro Wood
Jordan / Baten Pampa Gray
Kyle Kyle Hays
LeBlanc Beaumont Jefferson *
Lewis Woodville Tyler *
Lindsey Jacksboro Jack
Lockhart Lockhart Caldwell
Lopez Edinburg Hidalgo *
Luther Navasota Grimes *
Lychner Atascocita Harris *
Lynaugh Fort Stockton Pecos
Marlin Marlin Falls
McConnell Beeville Bee *
Michael Tennessee Colony Anderson *
Middleton Abilene Jones
Montford Lubbock Lubbock
Moore, B. Overton Rusk
Moore, C. Bonham Fannin *
Mountain View Gatesville Coryell
Murray Gatesville Coryell *
Neal Amarillo Potter
Ney Hondo Medina
Pack Navasota Grimes *
Plane Dayton Liberty
Polunsky Livingston Polk *
Powledge Palestine Anderson *
Ramsey Rosharon Brazoria *
Roach Childress Childress
Robertson Abilene Jones
Rudd Brownfield Terry
San Saba San Saba San Saba
Sanchez El Paso El Paso
Sayle Breckridge Stephens
Scott Angleton Brazoria *
Segovia Edinburg Hidalgo *
Skyview Rusk Cherokee
Smith Lamesa Dawson *
South Texas Houston Harris
Stevenson Cuero DeWitt
Stiles Beaumont Jefferson *
Stringfellow Rosharon Brazoria *
Telford New Boston Bowie *
Terrell Rosharon Brazoria *
Torres Hondo Medina *
Travis County Austin Travis
Tulia Tulia Swisher
Vance Richmond Fort Bend *
Wallace Colorado City Mitchell
Ware Colorado City Mitchell
West Texas Lubbock Terry
Wheeler Plainview Hale
Willacy County Raymondville Willacy *
Woodman Gatesville Coryell
Wynne Huntsville Walker *
Young Dickinson Galveston


* Units we've been to

Wednesday, May 2, 2018

Twogether in Texas Premarital Course









Memorable Moment
is an approved provider of the
Twogether in Texas Premarital Course
that will save $60 on the cost of your marriage license.   

It is not required but is included at no additional cost to you.






Depending on the county, 
marriage licenses cost $72 - $82
but you will only pay $12 - $22
with the Twogether in Texas course.

https://twogetherintexas.com/UI/HomePage.aspx







Monday, April 30, 2018

Offender Marriages on TDCJ Property


A.  Each unit shall provide two non-visitation workdays per month for offenders to be married in the visitation area of the offender’s assigned unit. Any exceptions shall be made on a case-by-case basis as authorized by the warden.
  • The date is set by the unit, not you and not us.
B.  The warden shall designate correctional staff to be present for the duration of the marriage.
  • Rarely but occasionally, the Warden and/or Chaplain may attend.
C.  The unit chaplain shall be responsible for scheduling all offender marriages on the unit and shall provide the warden with a list of all offenders scheduled to be married each specified day for final approval.
  • The chaplain may meet with your LO to set the date, he will contact you then you MUST notify us.
D.  Offender marriages shall not take place in the chapel. Offender marriages shall take place in the visitation area or in an area approved by the warden, based on the offender’s contact or non-contact visitation eligibility status, during non-visitation hours at times designated by the warden. Offender marriages shall be scheduled for no more than 30 minutes each.
  • On occasion, there may be a meeting in the visitation; the unit will assign another location for the ceremony.
E.  There is no requirement for a witness at the marriage. The marriage event shall be limited to the offender, non-incarcerated intended spouse, and the officiant.
  • Only the bride, groom and officiant are allowed; no visitors.
F.  There shall be no special visiting privileges permitted in connection with or immediately after any marriage. However, if the offender is contact visit eligible, holding hands shall be permitted during the process, along with a brief embrace and kiss at the end of the process.
  • In most cases when the ceremony is over, it's over; there is no 'visit' time.
G.  Marriage between currently incarcerated offenders shall not be permitted.
  • This is clear, marriage is NOT permitted between offenders.
H.  Attire of the offender, non-incarcerated intended spouse, and officiant shall be in accordance with the TDCJ Visitation Plan.
  • Clothing that is tight fitting, revealing, or made with see-through fabrics shall not be allowed.
  • Sleeveless shirts and dresses are allowed, but must cover the shoulders.
  • Shorts and skirts no shorter than three inches above the middle of the knee while standing, capri pants, or long pants are allowed.
    • Wedding attire should have little or no cleavage, sleeves or a jacket and skirts should not be too short or tight.  All units do not have the 'Gown of Shame' so we suggest you have back-up in your car.
I.  The officiant may bring in one book or document.
  • Vows written by the officiant and/or the intended is considered a document.
J.  Only items approved in accordance with the TDCJ Visitation Plan shall be permitted to be brought in by the officiant or the non-incarcerated intended spouse.
  • Keys and TDL and/or state ID only.
K.  Non-incarcerated intended spouses may not bring in a wedding ring to be exchanged with the offender during the marriage. Offenders are only allowed a wedding ring at the time of intake in accordance with AD-03.72, “Offender Property.”
  • We cannot stress this enough, there is NO ring exchange.   The officiant may bless YOUR rings but you must wear it in and NOT remove it.
L.  The offender’s spouse may purchase photographs after the marriage. Funds from the sale of photo fundraising shall be handled in accordance with ED-02.04, “Texas Department of Criminal Justice Fundraising.”
  • Pictures are $3 each just like in visit however most State Jails do not do pictures.
M.  Upon completion of the marriage the spouse shall exit the facility.
  • The offender is escorted out after the ceremony and the new spouse as well as the officiant must leave the property.  
N.  The I-60 and Offender Marriage Verification Worksheet shall be placed in the offender’s classification folder.
  • This is clear.  Sometimes but not always, the unit may make a copy of the license.
O.  The inmate records supervisor shall change the visitor’s status on the Family Tracking Page and the approved Visitors List after completion of the marriage.
  • In most cases, this is correct.  However some units will not make the change til a certified copy of the filed license is sent back to Classification at the unit.


Excerpt from AD-03.42 Offender Marriages with additional explaination
https://www.tdcj.state.tx.us/documents/policy/AD0342.pdf


AD-03.42 Offender Marriages



POLICY:

The Texas Department of Criminal Justice (TDCJ) shall permit offenders to be married on TDCJ property or contracted facilities. Each warden shall ensure proper procedures are in place to provide for the safety and security of staff, offenders, property, and the public.

DEFINITIONS:

“Officiant” is a person authorized to perform a marriage and includes: a licensed or ordained Christian minister or priest; a Jewish rabbi; a person who is an officer of a religious organization and who is authorized by the organization to perform a marriage; a justice of the supreme court, judge of the court of criminal appeals, justice of the courts of appeals, judge of the district, county, and probate courts, judge of the county courts at law, judge of the courts of domestic relations, judge of the juvenile courts, retired justice or judge of those courts, justice of the peace, retired justice of the peace, judge of a municipal court, retired judge of a municipal court, or judge or magistrate of a federal court of this state; and a retired judge or magistrate of a federal court of this state. Tex. Fam. Code § 2.202. TDCJ employees, contract employees, and volunteers shall not be permitted to perform the marriage of an offender on TDCJ property or contracted facilities.

“Workdays” are Monday through Friday, excluding state and national holidays for which TDCJ administrative offices are closed, and days when offices are closed at the direction of the executive director, such as for adverse weather.

PROCEDURES:

I. Marital Status 

A. The marital status designated by the offender at intake shall be considered the marital status of an offender during the offender’s incarceration. The marital status shall only change when adding a spouse due to marriage or removing a spouse due to a death or divorce.

B. A common law marriage is when a couple agrees to be married and after agreement live together and represent to others that they are married. Procedures and forms that may be used to prove common law marriage are provided in the TDCJ Visitation Plan. Common law marriage can only be accomplished prior to an offender’s incarceration. The TDCJ may require additional paperwork to prove that a couple actually lived together prior to incarceration.

C. The TDCJ shall only recognize proxy marriages performed in states that permit proxy marriage to an incarcerated offender.

D. In order for a new spouse to be substituted for a currently listed spouse on the Family Tracking Page or the offender’s approved Visitors List, a death certificate or divorce decree must be submitted to the unit inmate records supervisor.

II. Participant Requirements 

A. Officiant

1. An individual seeking to perform a marriage on TDCJ property or contracted facilities shall complete the Application of Person Requesting to Perform a Marriage (Attachment A) and submit it to the Access to Courts headquarters at least one week prior to the scheduled marriage date.

2. Once authorization is granted, the individual shall be eligible to perform a marriage on any TDCJ facility for one calendar year.

B. Non-Incarcerated Intended Spouse

1. The non-incarcerated intended spouse shall:

a. Obtain the required licenses and bring to the unit the day of the marriage;

b. Arrange for the officiant;

c. Be responsible for any payment to the officiant; and

d. Make all other necessary arrangements.

2. Former employees and ex-offenders who desire to marry a currently incarcerated offender shall be reviewed for admittance based on the TDCJ Visitation Plan.

C. Offender

1. The offender requesting to get married on a scheduled offender marriage day must be eligible for visits in accordance with the TDCJ Visitation Plan.

2. The offender shall submit an Inmate Request to an Official (I-60) to request a marriage on TDCJ property or a contracted facility. The request shall be submitted to the unit access to courts supervisor or designee and shall include:

a. The non-incarcerated intended spouse’s name; and

b. The name of the officiant who will be performing the marriage.

III. Review of Request 

A. Access to Courts

1. The access to courts supervisor or designee shall complete their portion of the Offender Marriage Verification Worksheet (Attachment B) and:

a. Review the I-60 for completeness;

b. Confirm the request was received at least seven days prior to the unit scheduled offender marriage dates;

c. Confirm that the requested officiant is currently approved or has provided documentation to prove that the officiant is a person authorized to perform a marriage under Texas law; and

d. Approve or deny the request.

2. If the access to courts supervisor or designee denies the request, the request shall be forwarded to the warden’s office for concurrence prior to notifying the offender.

3. If the access to courts supervisor or designee approves the request, the request shall be forwarded to the inmate records supervisor.

B. Inmate Records

1. The inmate records supervisor shall complete their portion of the Offender Marriage Verification Worksheet and:

a. Review the offender’s Family Tracking Page and approved Visitors List to confirm that the offender is not currently married;

b. Confirm that the proposed spouse is currently on the approved Visitors List for the offender and is at least 18 years of age; and

c. Approve or deny the request.

2. If the non-incarcerated intended spouse is not on the offender’s approved Visitors List, the request shall be denied.

3. If the inmate records supervisor denies the request, the request shall be forwarded to the warden’s office for concurrence prior to notifying the offender.

4. If the inmate records supervisor approves the request, the request shall be forwarded to the warden for final approval.

C. Warden

1. The warden shall review the request and approve or deny the marriage request on the Offender Marriage Verification Worksheet.

2. If the warden denies the request, the offender shall be notified of the reason the request was denied.

3. If the warden approves the request, the request shall be forwarded to the unit chaplain for placement on the offender marriages schedule. Once approved by the warden, the marriage shall be scheduled on the next available date; however, marriages may be rescheduled due to unforeseen circumstances with the approval of the warden.

IV. Offender Marriages on TDCJ Property 

A. Each unit shall provide two non-visitation workdays per month for offenders to be married in the visitation area of the offender’s assigned unit. Any exceptions shall be made on a case-by-case basis as authorized by the warden. 

B. The warden shall designate correctional staff to be present for the duration of the marriage. 

C. The unit chaplain shall be responsible for scheduling all offender marriages on the unit and shall provide the warden with a list of all offenders scheduled to be married each specified day for final approval. 

D. Offender marriages shall not take place in the chapel. Offender marriages shall take place in the visitation area or in an area approved by the warden, based on the offender’s contact or non-contact visitation eligibility status, during non-visitation hours at times designated by the warden. Offender marriages shall be scheduled for no more than 30 minutes each. 

E. There is no requirement for a witness at the marriage. The marriage event shall be limited to the offender, non-incarcerated intended spouse, and the officiant. 

F. There shall be no special visiting privileges permitted in connection with or immediately after any marriage. However, if the offender is contact visit eligible, holding hands shall be permitted during the process, along with a brief embrace and kiss at the end of the process. 

G. Marriage between currently incarcerated offenders shall not be permitted. 

H. Attire of the offender, non-incarcerated intended spouse, and officiant shall be in accordance with the TDCJ Visitation Plan. 

I. The officiant may bring in one book or document. 

J. Only items approved in accordance with the TDCJ Visitation Plan shall be permitted to be brought in by the officiant or the non-incarcerated intended spouse. 

K. Non-incarcerated intended spouses may not bring in a wedding ring to be exchanged with the offender during the marriage. Offenders are only allowed a wedding ring at the time of intake in accordance with AD-03.72, “Offender Property.”  

L. The offender’s spouse may purchase photographs after the marriage. Funds from the sale of photo fundraising shall be handled in accordance with ED-02.04, “Texas Department of Criminal Justice Fundraising.” 

M. Upon completion of the marriage the spouse shall exit the facility. 

N. The I-60 and Offender Marriage Verification Worksheet shall be placed in the offender’s classification folder. 

O. The inmate records supervisor shall change the visitor’s status on the Family Tracking Page and the approved Visitors List after completion of the marriage.



https://www.tdcj.state.tx.us/documents/policy/AD0342.pdf